How to Live a Happy Married Life

 

If you are married, you’ll know that happiness in your marriage is as essential as food is for hunger. Perhaps you’d like to be happier in your marriage – or you’re thinking about getting married and you’re looking for hints and tips. Here’s some good advice for living a happily married life.

 

 

 

1

Respect each other’s views at all times.

  • Give particular attention to what your spouse wants, believes and likes. Ideally, rather than working out what you need, you should try to work out what you both need. If you disappoint your partner, say so: “I’m sorry that I disappointed you.” and “I’ll try to make up for that.” If you may have given rise to a disagreement. 
 BY THIS POINT YOU SHOULD KNOW IT WONT WORK
 
2

Listen to each other properly. Don’t pretend to listen whilst you formulate your answer.

  • Show consideration to your spouse, with high regard to not disagreeing unnecessarily.
WRONG, SAY IT LIKE IT IS IF YOUR PARTNER DONT LIKE IT THAN THATS ANOTHER SIGN
 
3

Give priority to your spouse over everything else in your life.

  • Show your esteem for your spouse by giving preference over the needs and wishes of others.
NEVER DO THAT, YOUR PARTNER IS NOT PRIORITY, KIDS MONS AND DADS ARE.
 
5

Start your day with a warm kiss or a hug.

 
THAT I CAN DO, BUT DONT GET USED TO IT
 
 
6

Take time out and spend a few moments together–just the two of you alone.Maybe you and your spouse can go out for a walk or a drive to get away from others.

 
YES THIS IS A GOOD IDEA, STAYING TO LONG WITH YOUR PARTNER IN ONE PLACE IS NEVER A GOOD IDEA.
 
7

Talk graciously to each other about your thoughts–especially things for the two of you to agree upon or do together. Doing this daily helps foster communication between partners. OR GIVE AN EXCUSE TO FIND SOMETHING WRONG

  • Talk and thus be open hearted; this can create a bridge of thoughts and understanding. IF YOUR PARTNER IS NOT CRAZY
  • Never say things in anger intentionally meaning to hurt your partner. Cruel words you said but didn’t mean may be hard for your spouse to forget – they can cause lasting damage to your relationship. THATS A GOOD THING, IF IT HURTS YOU NOW IT WILL HURT MORE LATER. LEAVE
  • When arguing keep to the subject and try not to personally attack your partner
           I SAY WHY BOTHER. WHAT I THINK ABOUT THE SUBJECT IS WHAT MATTERS
 
8

Cook for each other, and show that you appreciate the thoughtfulness and the food – even if you could do better, or you may end up doing all the cooking yourself.

 
  HELL NO, WHO EVER DOES NOT WORK COOKS AND CLEANS PERIOD.
 
 
9

Remember that ideally and spiritually both of you are like one soul and two bodies; if you hurt each other, you hurt yourselves as well.

 
 THATS NO WHERE NEAR TRUE, BECAUSE WHEN YOUR PARTNER LEAVES YOUR ASS FOR SOME ONE ELSE YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE HURTING.
 
 
10

Don’t forget to do the little things that make each of you smile and feel loved.

 
THIS IS TRUE. YOU GOT PAID GOOD GIVE ME THE MONEY TO PAY THE BILLS BEFORE YOU GO SPEND IT AT THE STORES, THIS ALWAYS MAKES ME SMILE 
 
 
11

Be patient with each other as much as possible.

 
THIS IS TRUE, PATIENCE. VERY VERY IMPORTANT. PEOPLE’ ARE CRAZY.
 
 
12

Don’t break marital confidences or use them as a weapon during an argument

 
THAT’S NOT ALL THAT WILL BREAK, USUALLY YOUR PARTNER WILL GO FOR YOUR SOUL AT COURT AND WISH YOUR DEATH IN THE PROCESS. 
 
13

If you sense that something is wrong with your partner take time to embrace them and ask what’s the matter – maybe that’s the time they need your attention the most. Don’t ignore that opportunity.

JAJAJAJAJAJAJA, YEAH LIKE IM GONNA FALL FOR THAT ONE. MY X USED THAT EXCUSE WHEN RUNNING AWAY WITH THE PERSONAL TRAINER. I SHOULD OF HAD A SHRINK LOOK OVER THE ISSUES.
 
 
14

Make sure your partner knows how much you appreciate the little every day things they do, like doing the washing up or making the bed.

 
THIS IS TRUE. I APPRECIATE THE LITTLE THINGS. BUT ILL BE DAMM IF IM THE ONLY ONE WORKING AND I HAVE TO COME HOME AND DO THIS THINGS.
 
 
15

Surprise each other with little gifts or tokens of appreciation. This will make the moment even more special. Gifts need not be extravagant or painfully expensive. It is always the thought that counts. A little something to create warmth and sweet memories.

 
ILL BE FINE WITH THE PAY CHECK EVERY WEEK TO PAY THE BILLS. BECAUSE ONCE THE MARRIAGE ENDS IS ALL ABOUT THE MONEY, SO ILL MAKE SURE THAT DURING THE MARRIAGE IS ALSO ABOUT THE MONEY. NO MONEY NO CLEANING NO NADA, THAN THIS AIN’T WORKING GET THE HELL OUT.
 
 
 
 

Warnings

  • Learn to know one another as best as you can. SO YOU WILL KNOW WHEN THE BACK STAB WILL COME. Understand you are not the same and may never be – get to know each other and the way you both are. Respect that you are both individuals. JAJAJA SURE, EVEN MORE REASON TO PROTECT YOUR NECK FROM THE BLOOD SUCKER.
  • All issues need to have a solution and be resolved at the time of the conversation. LIKE I SAID, WHAT I THINK IS WHATS IMPORTANT
  •  Finish what you start other wise things just hang in the balance,which leads to future problems. I’LL FINISH IT WHEN I CAN AND OR FEEL LIKE IT
  • Always listen carefully. Some fights ruin the life even both sides do not know the cause of the fight. IN MY CASE THERE IS NO FIGHTING. I DON’T ARGUE CAUSE WHAT THE OTHER PERSON SAYS IS REALLY NOT IMPORTANT. UNLESS IS I GOT MONEY FOR YOU.
  • Communication is the key to a relationship. One should feel free to discuss all things with out fear of repercussion at any time. THIS WILL NEVER HAPPEN, YOUR PARTNER WILL USE ALL YOU HAVE SHARED AGAINST YOU AT THE END AND RIP OT YOUR HEART.
  • If you cheat on your partner it will ruin your own life, so make sure to always be honest with your spouse! JAJAJAJAJAJA LMAO, REALLY!!!!!!  CHEATING IS A LIFE DESTROYER SPECIALLY OF YOU HAVE KIDS. BUT IN THE USA, ONLY THE MAN SUFFERS THRU A DIVORSE, CAUSE THE WOMAN ALWAYS WINS IN COURT. SO WHY GET MARRIED???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
 
IF YOU FEEL YOU NEED TO COMMENT PLEASE DO, TELL WHATS IN YOUR HEART,ASK ANY QUESTION YOU WANT, TRY TO CONVINCE ME OTHER WISE.

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